Trust me when I say a little dirty talk in a low voice will guarantee you their full attention. Whether you're introducing dirty talk into your bedroom for the first time, or you've tried it before and want to feel more confident, discussing the subject before you hit the sheets might calm your nerves.
Tell them what you want to do them. Try whispering your plans for them gently in their ear. Then want you to kiss every part of my body.
At face value, dirty talk seems relatively straightforward and easy to do. All you have to do is say exactly what you want, right?
Well, I've got good news for you: If you're looking to add some frisky language to your repertoire, I've rounded up some dirty talk phrases for beginners that you can try out as soon as tonight. Take control by giving them instructions on exactly what feels good for you. But it can sometimes be tough to think straight when your mind is occupied by, um, other things — so feel free to slip a few of these phrases into your back pocket.
Relax, have fun, and before you'll know it, you'll be a dirty-talk pro. The best seductive language is the kind that comes naturally to you.
Tell them what you want. Another way to test the waters is by sexting.
As an added bonus, this is a great way to encourage and direct your partner toward doing more of what you crave. Talk about how you feel. Talking dirty in bed for the first time can seem a little scary, but you may be surprised by just how easily and naturally it rolls off the tongue once you get started This article was originally published on May 3, By Rachel Shatto.
Once you're fully feeling the fantasy, don't be afraid to let your partner know what you want. When you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, dirty talk can easily come to mind. One of the best ways to ease into a little dirty talk is to describe how your partner's actions make you feel in the moment.
Remember, there's no single "right" way to turn up the heat.